Friday 6 July 2012

A Jar and cups of coffee - A perspective on life

Another story to share.


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When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle, When 24 Hours in a day is not enough, Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.


A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in from of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with marbles. He then asked the students, if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. 


The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and ported them into the jar. He shook the had lightly, The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the marbles. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was. 


The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes'. The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed. 


'Now', said the professor, as the laughter subsided, I want you to recognise that this jar represents your life. THe marbles are the important things - family, children, health, friends and favourite passions. Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car. The sand is everything else -- the small stuff. If you put the sand into the jar first, there is no room for pebbles or marbles. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.


So... pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical check-ups. Take your partner out to dinner. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the marbles first -- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.


One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.


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Money is yours but resources belong to the society

Below is a story my mum shared with me. Please Enjoy


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Germany is a highly industrialised country. It produces top brans like Benz, BMW, and Siemens etc. The nuclear reactor pump is made in a small town in this country. In such a country, many will think its people lead a luxurious life. At least that was my impression before my study trip.

When I arrived at Hamburg, my colleagues who work in Hamburg arrange a welcome party for me in a restaurant. As we walked into the restaurant, we noticed that a lot of tables were empty. There was a table where a young couple was having their meal. There were only two dishes and two cans of beer on the table. I wondered if such simple meal could be romantic, and whether the girl will leave this stingy guy. THere were a few old ladies on another table. When a dish is served, the waiter would distribute the food for them, and they would finish every bit of the food their plates. We did not pay much attention to them, as we were looking forward to the dishes we ordered. As we were hungry, our coal colleague ordered more food for us. As the restaurant was quiet, the food came quite fast. Since there were other activities arranged for us, we did not spend much time dining. When we left, there was still about one third of unconsumed food on the table. When we were leaving the restaurant, we heard someone calling us. We noticed the old ladies in the restaurant were talking about us to the restaurant owner. When they spoke to us in English, we understood that they were unhappy about us wasting so much food. We immediately felt that they were really being too busybody. "We pad for our food, it is none of your business how much food we left," my colleague Guy told the old ladies.

The old ladies were furious. One of them immediately took her hand phone out and made a call to someone. After a while, a man in uniform claimed to be an officer from the Social Security organisation arrived. Upon knowing what the dispute was, he issued us a 50 Mark fine.

We all kept quiet. The local colleague took out a 50 Mark note and repeatedly apologised to the officer. The officer told us in a stern voice, "ORDER WHAT YOU CAN CONSUME, 'MONEY IS YOURS BUT RESOURCES BELONG TO SOCIETY'. THERE ARE MANY OTHERS IN THE WORLD WHO ARE FACING SHORTAGE OF RESOURCES. YOU HAVE NO REASON TO WASTE RESOURCES."

Our face turned red. We all agreed with him in our hearts. The mindset of people of this rich country put all of us to shame. WE REALLY NEED TO REFLECT ON THIS. We are from country which is not very rich in resources.

To save face, we order large quantity and also waste for when we give others a treat. THIS LESSON TAUGHT US A LESSON TO THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT CHANGING OUR BAD HABITS.

My colleague photocopied the fine ticket and gave a copy to each of us as a souvenir. All of us kept it and pasted on our wall to remind us that we shall never be wasteful.

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